(Sorry for the string of replies here, but I thought it better to split separate points into different posts, for clarity)
QUOTE (mchereynolds @ Jul 15 2009, 06:53 PM)

... I hear you on the boring factor! Perspective is very left-brained and mathematical. As a more beginner artist I feel like I should know all aspects of drawing but the perspective is one I don't gravitate toward. When you say the perspective threads what do you mean by this?
Perspective is somewhat dry, its true - but it is a very powerful tool, and one of the central techniques needed to create things that look realistic and convincing. Having even a
basic idea of it puts you at a
huge advantage as compared with not understanding it.
These threads contain good discussions of perspective - all three are worth reading slowly and carefully - Steve, Jeanette, Ernest and I cover a great deal of ground in them - we really present just about everything you could possibly need to know about perspective, in ways that hopefully make sense within the discussions:
http://www.drawspace.com/forums/index.php?showtopic=27815http://www.drawspace.com/forums/index.php?showtopic=27913http://www.drawspace.com/forums/index.php?showtopic=5454 (on page 3 of that, I get into some pretty advanced stuff in my later post, but don't let that frighten you off - what I show there is a method that used to be used by architects that enables you to do perspective construction of just about
anything - but its for general info/completeness only, I'm not suggesting everyone has to master
that 
)
QUOTE (mchereynolds @ Jul 15 2009, 06:58 PM)

I guess I get paranoid if I am not doing something exactly as an artist has instructed and so she never mentions bringing a ruler into the whole exercise. So I wasn't sure if I was supposed to eyeball it and make crooked lines? I used my pencil and got that measurement for the distance but still it wasn't all sinking in. Why do I have a negative view on using a ruler I realize? I don't know why that is. Maybe that is part of my problem.
A lot of people (including, alas, many artists who "teach") have romantic delusions/fantasies about doing things in certain "artistic" ways (which are usually crazy self-imposed limitations). Learning to draw and paint is difficult enough already, there's no need to make it even more difficult by constraining yourself to ways that the uninformed
think its done by real pros, rather than how its
actually done.
I'll tell you a couple of artistic secrets:
Artistic secret number 1 the best artists use every tool, trick, and technique at their disposal to achieve the best result they can. They don't work with one arm tied behind their backs, rejecting resources that they could use to make a more effective painting/drawing.
To do perspective, you
need to use a ruler (or similar straight-edge) - and anybody who tells you that this is "inartistic"
doesn't know what they are talking about and can be safely ignored

.
Artistic secret number 2If you are frightened that using rulers and so on will make your work look "mechanical", then fear not - another big artistic secret is doing a
pre-drawing. So what, you may ask, do I mean by a pre-drawing?
Another of the big "romantic fantasies" that people have, is that "proper artists" can do line-drawing where they put down all the lines
perfectly, straight-off - and that, furthermore is the
only way to do it - anything else is "inartistic", or "cheating".
Nonsense.
Basically there are two stages to executing any drawing - the first is to achieve correct proportions/placements - and the second is to shade/render to show the 3D form of the object by how light and shade fall across it.
The first of these stages is often (nay, usually) skipped over - but its actually, I'd suggest,
harder than rendering - the result being that "wonky" drawings are commonplace.
Instead of thinking that "proper artists" somehow
magically get placement correct - and that other people "cannot draw" (implying that they don't have that magic gift/talent, and are doomed to forever produce wonky drawings) - you will get a lot further, faster, by realising that it is
allowed to set up your proportions and placement
first - by doing a rough, light drawing (and even by using such infernal tools of Satan himself, such as erasers, or tracing paper), and refining that until you are confident that things are in the right places, and are the right size relative to each other - and then using that construction drawing as the basis of your "drawing proper".
As my first witness for the defence, I'd like to call to the stand Jacob Collins. Jacob is one of the foremost classical realist artists of today. If you are not familiar with his work, check out his website:
http://www.jacobcollinspaintings.com/So, now we've established his credentials, have a look at this drawing demo:
http://www.artistsnetwork.com/article/figure-drawing-demosee particularly his stages 1 to 4 - and note he's prepared to spend quite a bit of time on the construction stage to get it right, first finding overall angles, lengths and proportions, and then finding and plotting out the shapes of the edges of shadows across the figure.
Once these have been done,
then the freehand drawing is done using that as its basis.
Dave